Sometimes Being Selfish can Work for Others

Whatever decision you take in life, try to think of all the consequences and how it can affect you. There are places where you do not know what to do or what to come up to... Just make sure that out of all the confusion, you come up with an answer, where no one gets hurt in the future (especially you). I know it’s being selfish thinking of yourself... However, certain situations require you to be like that only. Who knows, eventually by taking a selfish decision, you might help everyone :).

And yes, when you feel you do not need anyone, just close your eyes, take a deep breath in and a deep breath out, make sure that you can hear yourself. Once you can achieve this state, you will find that you have the answer to all your questions and you will start feeling better.

And on top, from where I look at it, everyone hate lecture, but what they like is care. They need someone, who can listen to them and give advises. Yes, advises will not work, as they may not be practical. However, they like the fact that person find time for them to come up with the stupid lecture. Just to show the person that the lecture eventually worked, they themselves come up with a solution and solve their own problem.