It is difficult for a person to know when is the right time to move ahead in their relationship. Be at a position, where you can think ahead and see a future where both you and your friend see each other as someone, who holds a special position.
Do we get any signals that signify their existence? Anything like pigs flying in the air, birds chirping sweet, weather changing to something pleasant and everything seeming better than ever before. I believe things remain the same always. The only thing that changes is you yourself. Now, how can I say that? Pretty Simple! Read ahead and you will have the answer.
To know if it is the right time to move ahead or not, you should get close to yourself first. You know there are a number of people, who will have their opinion in this regard. All of them will put your life with or without that friend, making you more confused. However, one place, which will never let you down and give you a clear advise, is your heart, your own heart! You know why, as our heart is the only one, who knows what we exactly want, as it is the very thing that manages all the pain and gain, which you get in a relationship.
If your heart plays such an important role in your relationship, then why not let it choose your partner. Your friends will never make a decision to harm you, as they know your mental state. However, I doubt if they have an access to your heart. Irrespective of their closeness to you, they cannot identify what your heart needs. You may seem someone very strong, but your heart may be weak and might not take the burden of a wrong decision.
What it takes to get close to yourself is sit in a darkened room, hold your hands together and think of the good times spent with your friend, who you recently have been finding very close to your heart. Thing of all the good times you had. In case if he will be the right one, you are going to get a signal that will determine what his position should be in your life. It might not seem perfect all the time. However, in the longer run, who knows it may turn out to be the right decision.
So, go ahead and give yourself an opportunity to make this important decision of your life!
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